as someone who shared a small house for 3 months (longest i could hold) with a Girl (who was a friend, but not in a sexy way) you both need to have the same degree of commitment or it is going to be hell.

Just to let you know, i woke up everyday at around 8am, went out to look for a job that payed enough to pay the bills (really hard to do since i only had a cellphone, no credit, was from another state and had no previous jobs) and only went back home at around 00:00 (was trying college at the same time) and yet, every day for the last 2 months of this living hell, i woke up to see a small note on the side of the fridge (that was so broken that Mayonnaise froze up inside), a passive-aggressive note telling that "If i really wanted a job i should wake up sooner and look harder"... and that's from someone who worked all night as a "chatgirl" (yeah, you know what that means)

It's absolutely true, living with anyone changes everything. It's a whole new game and all the rules are weird. It's ok at first, but it changes over time.

You guys really need to work as a team. Or it's just 2 people living under the same roof, and as soon as one of you gets in trouble (as we all often do in life) the other one won't be able to hold the fort and the house is coming down.

So, really, if you really want to do this, communication is number one. You really should think about sitting down and going "Ok, tell me all about your bullshit and the things you will do that i'll get pissed about for the next 6 months" then you can tell if this can work or not... if you both are honest about.

I'm confused, if you aren't going to watch Cosmos or Planet Earth, what is the point of the pot in the first place?

I think you're confusing things a bit.

The real question is what's the point of having Cosmos or Planet Earth if you don't also ALREADY have pot?

Truly a vicious cycle.