women the impossible struggle
 

:bmage: Now i do not get this... all in all i have no problem getting women, but y is it that all the women i meet are just out of a bad abusive relationship (physical or mental). We go out have a great few months and than no reason she breaks up with me and then goes back to the same crappy bf she had before who then still treats her like shit but she is none the wiser "thinking" she is in love but it is all just control.

It really does seem women like to be treated like dogs, eh? I know this girl who comes around crying because her boyfriend treats her like shit, but she wont leave him. She'll go away from him and come back, I guess she thinks he'll change.

One thing girls need to know about men is, when a man is an abusive man, he will never change.

completely true... they think that because of the pain it makes the sweet that much sweeter and thats just wrong

I do have problems getting girls, but I have seen this pattern. Especially among close friends. It totally sucks watching a friend get sucked into that type of thing again and again. There's one guy in particular who was a major don juan, who whent out with three of my friends consecutively, treated each of them like shit, broke each of their hearts, and then went back with the first one and started the cycle again. When he left the school, me and the few others were left trying to patch up the tattered friendship between the three girls. Not fun at all.

When your girlfriends ex commits suicide, its kinda hard for her to go back to him, so I dont really have much to worry about, y'know?

Ahh... that post is both sad and amusing Atron.

Anyway... Psychologists believe that girls want the 'bad boys' out of the romantic belief that their love can change them. It makes them feel special to think that maybe they can make that person settle down through their love when no one else could. That's for the normal bad boy though. With woman beaters there's a confusion created in the woman in which the woman believes that the man hits her because he loves her... and that if a man doesn't hit her, he doesn't love her. The same can happen with men... you just don't hear about it as much because women generally aren't as violent and men will usually defend themselves to some degree. So these women will seek out abusive relationships believing that healthy ones do not have 'love' in them.

I'm sure the pattern isn't women exclusive. I've known guys who would go back to women over and over (despite the fact that when they were with them, all the did was complain).

My theory is that they're so convinced they'll never find anyone better.

Personally, I think you have to date some bad ones before you appreciate the good ones, and eventually I got me a good one. :D

Possibly true. Anyone else live in the world where your female friends constantly complain to you about how "there isn't any boy out there who I can have a conversation with" and you have to remind them of your gender?

As long as you don't remind them by "whipping it out", I think you're okay.

Personally, I stopped having female friends when I found my girlfriend. Every guy knows that we only have female friends we wanna sleep with, right?

My girlfriend doesn't believe me. :D

*Looking at everyone else's posts*

Observation: Nice guys finish last. Girls like coming back to bad guys.

Conclusion: Given that this one is a nice guy IRL and an evil sadistic bastard online, this one will have an easier time finding girls on the Net.