You get it every day? Your SO must really care about giving you what you enjoy. (I can hear the single male NPFers muttering "Lucky bastard" from here).

As for the oral, I'm sure that it would mean more to a male if his SO was giving him oral and enjoying it, rather than just doing it out of a sense of duty. *shrugs* I always thought a guy would take great pleasure in having his SO appreciate the unique characteristics of his penis with her mouth.

Oh, and Demetrius, I once saw a t-shirt that said, "Nothing says 'love' like oral."

Not everyday, but often enough. It's a general part of foreplay... so I probably would if I saw her every day.

Oh no, you're totally right on that.

Just that if it's commonplace, it doesn't get to be a present.

Like... to move away from the blatant sex talk, because as a moderator I'm gonna have to say we might be going a bit far for the general forums, there are kids around these parts (but feel free to take it off the forums. Wink wink. Nudge nudge.)... anyway, lots of guys will do a breakfast in bed thing for their SO as a 'gift' on special occassions.

It's like, one of those cliche things.

But, let's say your particular SO brought you breakfast in bed a few times a week, or even a few times a month, for no real reason other than that you enjoy it, and we'll say he enjoys cooking and being up before you.

Suddenly, it just doesn't fly as a special occassion present, 'cause he does it all the time. It's not 'special' though it is appreciated. ...Unless he does something like making your absolute favorite meal for your breakfast in bed and even then it probably wouldn't fly unless that breakfast is something time consuming and difficult to make, that he usually wouldn't do.

Yeah, I can see how it becomes a routine act of love over time, unless there's a special new twist, such as breakfast served on a pretty set of dishes that the SO has wanted for a very long time.

If it wasn't so blasted cold around February 14, I always thought it would be fun to have my SO act out a prearranged "kidnapping" to some place with special significance to both of us.

Either way I'm DRUNK now, gonna stay drizunk as long as possible and avoid the girl of my dreams who happens to be my roommate as long as possible... Oral is waaaay outta the picture and I care about all of t so much I wish I didn't live where I do so next week I'll be at my parent's avoiding things as much as posible.

If I had the money, I'd be my own valentine and treat myself to a fancy spa day. It's kind of like getting drunk, but without the nasty hangover and the one-night stand in my bed the next morning. I'd also want to do the cooking and dessert for my friends, as I had originally planned to do when I was delusional enough to think I'd have a job secured by February 1.

If money were no object, what would you like to do, for yourself or someone else, on Valentine's Day?

Buy a bunch of hookers. For life. Marry them all.

Bunch of hookers could also be easily replaced with "cute girl" and "them all" replaced with "her".

Well, I got a date with the girl I mentioned earlier. Now I just need to figure out whether to give her the stolen stop sign or the condom rose for V-day. Can someone help me with this decision?

The most romantic valentines thing i ever did was.... when i was dating a girl who lived in a rural area, her neighbors owned a ranch. before valentines I learned how to ride, Borrowed full plate mail from a friend (the whole silver shining plate mail ensemble) and bought two longstem dozen roses. On the day in question I went, borrowed the neighbors snow white horse, wearing plate mail with 2 dozen roses astride a white horse i rode up to her house. we had a romantic ride through the countryside and then moved into a romantic evening. graceful, majestic, classic romantic. didn't stop her from dumping me 3 months later, But it's probably the most romantic thing i'll ever do in my life.

Geez, it must be a success year or something, looks like I may not be alone this V Day after all. Shit, that means no chinese buffet! :(

You could be a bastard and bring the girl to the chinese buffet with all your single friends.