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05-10-2007 03:53 AM |
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Originally Posted by Krylo
Considering Senior High School students children is... well, frankly? Asinine.
These are people who, in a few months, are going to be entering the workforce, either to get themselves through college or to support themselves and families. These are further people who have, more than likely had sex before... and are already acting sexually responsible or irresponsible, as the case may be. This event is very unlikely to change that.
I mean, I'm not going to say that I'm totally cool with teachers encouraging this kind of thing, if only because it reeks of the ew nasties with these guys getting their own students naked. I mean, I wouldn't feel comfortable sitting in a class trying to learn from someone who just judged my naked body and ability to strip. Someone who was, undoubtably, and most likely still is, thinking highly sexual thoughts about me.
Unless the teacher was hot. Then it'd be ok.
If their freshmen on the other hand? Oh yeah, I'm with you. Those didn't look like freshmen bodies, though. Although it is, admittedly, hard to tell with the shitty ass quality. ...Still though, pretty hot.
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Most of these kids aren't even done physically maturing yet, let alone mentally. Maybe they aren't children anymore, but they sure aren't adults. Regardless of what they're about to go out into the world to do or not do, high school isn't the place to explore one's sexuality any more than it is a place to explore one's violent tendencies. Aquisition of academic knowledge is what school is for. Becoming an adult is what the home and their own free time is for.
Regardless of this debate, however, is the fact that this behavior happened on school grounds with teacher participation is unacceptable; can we at least agree on that?
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Originally Posted by adamark
That's just the thing, though. In modern society, we have no official coming-of-age rituals. Kids do seemingly foolish, risky things to prove they are growing up because no one else has set up rituals to prove that for them.
The purpose of an initiation ritual is to move an individual from one fixed status to another fixed status. For example, you move from being a child to being a man. This is marked by a bar mitzvah for Jewish people. For a lot of people who aren't raised in such a traditional structure, they might assert their manhood by having sex, doing drugs, getting into fights, anything viewed as manly.
For females, their first period marks their 'womanhood', but NOT really, because there are so many other qualities associated with what it means to be a woman. Girls can get their period as young as 8 years old, but no one would claim they are now women. A female also has to have a well developed body: breasts, hips, whatever. How is this relavent? The teachers in this Danish school set up a ritual that directly speaks to this coming-of-age time period, where these girls are finishing up puberty and have the confidence to assert their qualities. People don't just make up crazy, insane traditions and people just lose their mind and celebrate it. This strip tease, although unprofessional, is the closest thing--and maybe the only thing--that is welcoming these kids into adulthood. It's not surprising AT ALL that they'd jump at the chance to perform.
So, from this perspective, cracking down on these teachers or students would be a bad idea. Humans need rituals, especially initiation rites marking the coming-of-age. So, address the issue, come up with something to take its place if it offends people, but don't crack down on people for doing what's simply natural.
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The rituals, regardless of any merit they may or may not hold, were inappropriate for school grounds. Teachers should no more be judging striptease than they should be refereeing bare-knuckle bouts.
To my mind your argument is much more in support of developing legitimate rituals than (for lack of a better term, please forgive me) excusing the current ones.
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