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Zoran 07-15-2007 10:58 AM

Oh such a difficult decision.
 
Well after I get out of the hosbital I will have to face divorced parents. So I have to decide which one to live with. So here are my options.

(a.)My father, Just my father with the house I was originally in.
(b.)My brother, now my brother is 17 now so next year he claims he is going to get an apartment, I kinda doubt this but lets say he is.
(c.)My Mother, now were going to go to a little house first with almost nothing, bringing the comps. And then were going to buy a trailer, move into a tailer park and get cable internet and all. (Which I doubt will happen all in atlease two-five days)

I love each of them and they all want to watch after me.... but I just can't decide.... so I ask you guys to help me with this dicision! Please I beg of your help.

Meister 07-15-2007 12:18 PM

Well phew. I dunno dude, without knowing either of you all to well or in fact at all, I don't think that's a decision any of us, excluding anyone you happen to know personally, are really prepared to help you with. And that's not even counting the whole strangers-on-the-internet thing. Feel free to talk about it, but ultimately you're probably on your own, tough as it is. :(

Telephalsion 07-15-2007 01:31 PM

Ever heard of compromising? Try all options for a "trial period" of sorts, and then pick the one you felt the most comfortable living with, you can still visit the others right?

Zilla 07-15-2007 02:35 PM

I've got divorced parents, and I spent half the time with each of them. Dad's a firefighter and has a weird schedule so I'm with him on his off days, and with Mom while he works.

It takes a while to get used to this, but consider it an option.

Zoran 07-15-2007 03:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Meister
Well phew. I dunno dude, without knowing either of you all to well or in fact at all, I don't think that's a decision any of us, excluding anyone you happen to know personally, are really prepared to help you with. And that's not even counting the whole strangers-on-the-internet thing. Feel free to talk about it, but ultimately you're probably on your own, tough as it is.

Well Meister this forum is basicly my last choice of advice since no one else can help me.


Quote:

Originally Posted by Zilla
I've got divorced parents, and I spent half the time with each of them. Dad's a firefighter and has a weird schedule so I'm with him on his off days, and with Mom while he works.

It takes a while to get used to this, but consider it an option.

Well im sorry but thats not an options. Since Im only going to be able to stay with one.

Telephalsion 07-16-2007 09:08 AM

Nobody, and I mean nobody, can tell you what to do, it is always up to you in the end. You can ask for all the advice in the world but that wont change a thing, the choice affects you and your family, but it is your choice to make, unless your parents makes the decision for you.
To me, asking for an outsiders help it just asking for someone to blame if you're unhappy with the choice further down the road of life.

What you get from others are suggestions, the choice is yours.

handofpwn 07-16-2007 09:22 AM

I got between My mom and my dad as well. My dad gets me on the weekends and my mom keeps me on the weeks. I would suggest trying to at least visit the other on the weekends like i do, its worked for me. But like telephalsion said, its your decision in the end.

Ugainius 07-16-2007 11:37 AM

This may sound a bit offensive but... Damn Zoran, your life's a soap opera.
As for picking a parent to stay with, no ones advice is really going to be helpful. Your going to have to go this one alone.

Fifthfiend 07-16-2007 11:53 AM

I'm moving this to General cause this isn't really an Off-Topic Topic.

Zoran, in the future mind the difference between General and Off-Topic.

I can't imagine you want your thread about your parents' divorce to get filled up with titty-jokes and Yodadog.

Nikose Tyris 07-16-2007 04:03 PM

Stay with your Dad, and make a note to visit your mom. it's not like she's moving out of the country, and living with your dad seems easiest and that's the best way to explain it- it saves the big effort of packing up your things and moving all over the place, especially when your life is hectic enough the way things are.


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