That's the problem with this sort of thing, is there's a degree to which you end up feeling obligated to buy into it because you think otherwise you're just being an asshole. It takes your own decent impulses and turns them against you, which is just one more part of how this kind of emotional manipulation works and exactly why it is such an incredibly shitty thing to do.

I'm gonna go ahead and close this cause either Zoran's done a runner or the whooping cough finally caught up with him. Zoran if you do decide you want to come back then you can do a new thread in which I will expect you to apologize to 1. Brian Clevinger whose forum you disrupted, 2. the moderators whose job is immeasurably harder when people decide to create shitty situations like this one, and most importantly 3. every single forumer who got his or her emotions jerked around so you could get some kind of kick out of making people feel awful. Like shiney said we're willing to let you have another go here but only if you can demonstrate that you understand this is a horrible thing to do to people and that it will never, ever, ever happen again.

Or hey if you can actually turn up those medical charts or whatever and prove what a bunch of awful suspicious picking-on-dying-kids assholes we are then I'll be the first one here to apologize.