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Professor Smarmiarty 03-07-2012 04:54 AM

Anything goes after a priate orgy.

Kyanbu The Legend 03-07-2012 05:01 AM

Nothing beats a good orgy
 
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Originally Posted by Smarty McBarrelpants (Post 1187685)
Anything goes after a priate orgy.

I'd like to change my previous answer to this. /\

Osterbaum 03-07-2012 06:29 AM

With an orgy you are basically just multiplying the number of people you wont be able to look in the eyes afterward. Especially if you tell them all they suck.

synkr0nized 03-07-2012 06:56 AM

i.e. No one should be afraid to have a negative opinion; just don't have an attitude
 
In Academia it is par for the course to tell your colleagues when they are performing inferior research or their writing is not up to snuff. However, structuring critiques instead of just tearing someone down is miles better, moreso if you can offer ideas or suggestions on how to improve.

Osterbaum 03-07-2012 07:03 AM

Basically what it all boils down to is this: Donīt be and asshole about it.

Professor Smarmiarty 03-07-2012 07:33 AM

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Originally Posted by synkr0nized (Post 1187691)
In Academia it is par for the course to tell your colleagues when they are performing inferior research or their writing is not up to snuff. However, structuring critiques instead of just tearing someone down is miles better, moreso if you can offer ideas or suggestions on how to improve.

Considering how terrible most of the papers I read are, its not working.

CABAL49 03-07-2012 08:49 AM

In the American South you can get away with anything as long as you end it with bless your heart. As in, "You are the worst person I have ever met. I would rather be castrated by ants than spend another two minutes talking to you. Bless your heart."

Makes everything ok.

Kyanbu The Legend 03-07-2012 09:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Smarty McBarrelpants (Post 1187693)
Considering how terrible most of the papers I read are, its not working.

There's not much effort going into quality beyond "good enough to pass" so there's that too.

Ryong 03-07-2012 09:15 AM

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Originally Posted by The Sevenshot Kid (Post 1187637)
Specifics? Alright, specifics. Let's say this person really likes to write. They absolutely love it and spend tons of time working on it but they make the simplest grammatical and spelling errors while delivering a stilted plot with uninteresting characters. They keep doing this because they think they'll be able to publish a successful novel.

I like to write and a lot of my friends like to write. I don't consider myself to be that good of a writer by any stretch of the imagination but I know people that are worse. And they refuse to edit or address constructive criticism. I honestly would like to help these friends of mine but what can you really do when they won't let you?

Man, it's a bit too obvious who're you talking about.

I'm going to say writing something takes a lot of maturity and if the person struggles with that already, criticism won't be taken too well. I draw sprites, and I think I've improved since I started, but good criticism is hard to come by - no one actually comments on anything but like, oh it's tiny, which, yeah, it is - but on writing it ain't.

If you've already done plenty and they've proved to be pretty much impervious to criticism, I'm not sure it can be helped. Although, sometimes, improving can be hard and talent varies. Research always helps, though.

Premmy 03-07-2012 10:29 AM

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Originally Posted by CABAL49 (Post 1187702)
In the American South you can get away with anything as long as you end it with bless your heart. As in, "You are the worst person I have ever met. I would rather be castrated by ants than spend another two minutes talking to you. Bless your heart."

Makes everything ok.

Why do people keep saying this and things like it as if it's true?


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