I feel your pain. I'm pale too. I'm also obsessed with the color blue(don't ask why). So i think ill wear like a really light blue. But my best friend thinks i should go totally goth and be all black... Problem is im not gothic and my parents would rather die.

SO, adivice from me...ok lets see....

Wear your hair up. It usually looks good on anyone that way. Maybe in a bun with pretty flowers. Its an idea....

Anyway if your tight on money dont go big...and no freaking ice sculptures EVER.
Yes i get to make that decision. Its a bad idea alll around. I dont remember who said it earlier..But BAD.

In all its just what makes you comfterble. Get those cake people who let you take home lots of samples to taste.
Congrats!!

Well, I barely know either of you... I'm a newbie, after all... But I'd like to say congrats, good luck, and may you both hear the li'l pitter-patter of tiny ShinehRais in the near future! :D

As for suggestions... I have none. I'm piss-poor at organizational thingies like this... But, whatever you decide to do, just have fun, and hopefully, you both will have a wedding to remember for years to come.

Congrats to both of you!

ShinehRais, hehe. Yeah, kids are a long term dream of mine. I'd like to actually be together first before I even considering starting my army of children.

Congradulations. :)

RaiRai and Shiney, just as the world goes around, so does your love. May you two spend an eternity of bliss together and bear beautiful children when the time comes. May you two endure hardships together, remaining strong, for when the time comes, you two will have grown a bond towards each other that is unbreakable by any force. Your children will look at the wonderful parents that raised them, and they will be greatful for it.

As for your wedding. I wish you two the best of luck. :)

I repeat:

Naked weddings save thousands.

Naked weddings = unhappy families. Plus I don't actually like my own nakedness. I'd rather wear a bright PINK wedding dress than go naked.

Money is an issue with everything, In fact it is the issue with everything. I'd like to help you to love birds out, but my domain is the USA but I have friends in the U.K, so I will see if I can do anything, but then again you guys probably have mostly of the stuff figured.

Actually, no. We have a few months to plan now though, at least.

Unless StevanHogg lives in the UK, I'm the closest to good ol' Britain. (The east of the Netherlands.)

Anyway, again I congratulate ye.

And again I wish I could be there. If you would place my picture on a cardboard body, I'd still be there in a way.
I doubt I'd be able to visit you guys. :( A lack of finacial means has foiled my fun again!

Okay, it's official.

Shiney and I signed our marriage license today. So we're looking toward the 14th of May now. So make a date in your diaries. Yep.