I'm pretty patient when it comes to love, I'd be more then willing to wait. Heck, even accept defeat if it ultimately makes her happy. It just pisses me off what a jerkass he is.. I mean really, you don't actualy say OUTLOUD that you would avoid someone just cause of the way they look, much less to your fricking girlfriend! >: / Then again I hold relationships as sacred, one of my few moraly uplifting qualities..

I got bored so I did a ratio graph of me and him pros and cons.

CC pros:
Lives a few blocks away from her house.
Digs her friends.
Loves music almost as much as she does.
likes D&D which is sorta like Final Fantasy.
Loves animals and the same cutesy anime she does.

CC cons:
Probably has a major case of schizotypal syndrome.
Probably not the best person to be talking to if you have a Christian ANYWHERE in your family. (I don't mind the religoun, but I can't say for ceartain the feeling is mutual..)
Will probably result in some bad karma somewhere in your life wether it be infact finding the Necrocromicom or selling spirit-boards to children..

Jerkass pros:
Gos to the same class as she does. (I go to the same school to but at a differant time of day..)
Has a job.
Knows math. (Damn him..)

Jerkass cons:
Is a liberal zealot.
Is shallow and biggoted.
Hates everyone she comes into contact with.
Doesn't like animals too much.
Sleeps to fricking much.
Probably only bathes about twice a week.

I'd say statistcaly i'm in the lead.. but eh, stastics can't outsmother matters of the heart. :( Maybe I should get started on her "red and blue conciounces'es".. :bmage:

Well one, if you actually want someone you might try selling yourself a little more... Don't lie about it, but seriously, instead of "pagan lunatic" say "open to other ideals." Just had to throw that in there...

****Sorry If I Offend Any Women****
Until women mature a little more, the jackass will win.. always, hands down. Later in life the nice guys win, and if they wait it out enough and wait for hte jackass to cross the line your fine then as well... But until women mature they want the jackass. They want a guy who has a hurt past or is completley uncouth so that they can fix him. Every women wants a project, they think they can be the one that magically changes him and turns him into the prince that's supposedly inside of him.. Lady, it ain't!

The way you described him I'd say it will never last between the two of them, but then again you are a ltitle biased in the situation so...Also, she may be one of those women who isn't all there and will stay with him forever because she never gets it through her head that she can't fix him, so whatever... Probably won't get too much advice from us since we don't know the situation too well, just from your perspective.

Really don't know if that'll help you, because you so described yourself, however, I'd like to believe your not a complete and total sadistic son of a bi- and have at least SOME nice qualities... And that's saying a lot since I am rarely that trusting in the human spirit...

EDIT: Oh, and D&D is A LOT COOLER then FF

My advice is to not take any advice you find on nuklear power forums.

And with that, I think we can close this. Good luck with...whatever's going on in the original post, Cheerful Coffin. My advice is to read the advice about posting clarity I gave Anauel.