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Lady Cygnet · 12-21-2009, 05:33 PM

Unfortunately, I'll probably have to deal with this in a little over a decade with my daughter. Unless the boy and girl were going for a little public frottage or handjobs, I wouldn't blow my stack. What constituted the "making out" anyway?

I'm planning on talking to my daughter openly and honestly about sex. She's a bit young yet, but I'm trying to help her figure out "good touching" versus "bad touching" so that she doesn't have to go through what I started going through when I was four years old. I want her to feel like she can come to me any time she likes to talk about sex, especially if she wants to have sex or feels like she's being pressured to have sex. While I wouldn't mind being a grandmother someday, I'm not in a hurry to become one, and I only want my daughter to have children of her own when and if she is ready to have them, not because her partner is trying to force her into it.

ETA: Dr. Laura is not a person that I would turn to for parenting advice. Her head-in-the-sand attitude regarding matters like this one undermines relationships rather than building them up and creating an environment of trust and responsibility.

12-21-2009, 05:33 PM	#12
Lady Cygnet Hasn't changed her avatar in years Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Beyond Thunderdome Posts: 1,234	Unfortunately, I'll probably have to deal with this in a little over a decade with my daughter. Unless the boy and girl were going for a little public frottage or handjobs, I wouldn't blow my stack. What constituted the "making out" anyway? I'm planning on talking to my daughter openly and honestly about sex. She's a bit young yet, but I'm trying to help her figure out "good touching" versus "bad touching" so that she doesn't have to go through what I started going through when I was four years old. I want her to feel like she can come to me any time she likes to talk about sex, especially if she wants to have sex or feels like she's being pressured to have sex. While I wouldn't mind being a grandmother someday, I'm not in a hurry to become one, and I only want my daughter to have children of her own when and if she is ready to have them, not because her partner is trying to force her into it. ETA: Dr. Laura is not a person that I would turn to for parenting advice. Her head-in-the-sand attitude regarding matters like this one undermines relationships rather than building them up and creating an environment of trust and responsibility. Last edited by Lady Cygnet; 12-21-2009 at 07:52 PM.