Broach it from a viewpoint of fear, to her: Ask her what she thinks of you joining the army, and tell her that there are risks involved and that if things go the worst way imaginable, you two might never see each other again. Ask her if she's ready for you to be potentially very far from her, and if she thinks your relationship would last through that.
It's young, and she might admit that she agrees, it wouldn't last. It takes the Onus off you if she makes the decision to say, "I don't think -I- could stay with you through that"; alternatively, if she says, "Yes, I am confident that I'm strong enough to stay through that," it's an easy sign that if she believes in the relationship that strongly, maybe you should too.
I dunno, it's just one idea.
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