Drgon got dumped - Page 6

krogothwolf · 09-13-2010, 02:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Funka Genocide

Also, if she hasn't all ready banged some other dude you've got like a week tops.

Protip: She's all ready banged some other dude.

Also he was probably a sailor

Damnit Funka, stop pretending to be a sailor and banging other dude's ex girlfriends!

Jagos · 09-13-2010, 03:27 PM

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Originally Posted by krogothwolf

Damnit Funka, stop pretending to be a sailor and banging other dudes ~~ex girlfriends~~!

FTFY.

Krylo · 09-13-2010, 03:49 PM

Don't make him stop, Jagos.

Shyria Dracnoir · 09-13-2010, 03:53 PM

Just be glad he isn't like Nikose trying to bang barges, screw ships, and cuddle catamarans

bluestarultor · 09-13-2010, 03:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Shyria Dracnoir

Just be glad he isn't like Nikose trying to bang barges, screw ships, and cuddle catamarans

Well, it's not the size of the boat...

Funka Genocide · 09-13-2010, 04:34 PM

This isn't about me or sailing.

Its about the dude banging out Drgon's ex-girlfriend.

Lets have some sympathy here folks.

Nikose Tyris · 09-13-2010, 04:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Shyria Dracnoir

Just be glad he isn't like Nikose trying to bang barges, screw ships, and cuddle catamarans

I'm pregnant and it's yours.

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Originally Posted by Blues

Well, it's not the size of the boat...

Actually it is. 12 feet and less just ain't worth my time.

DarkDrgon · 09-16-2010, 12:24 AM

Ok, i know, dead thread, and no one wants to hear this anymore, but I finally feel good about things.

She texted my friend today asking how I was. He told the honest truth, that I was a wreck, and then it turned to him bashing her for what she did (probably not the smartest move, given he didn't know everything, but he seemed to get everything right cause she came to me)

so we talk, I honestly tell her I'd be willing to try again if she wanted to try, but she goes on saying we're not connected and we dont have enough in common. she then says we were never connected, and if I thought so it was all in my head.

So I flip out. Not gonna lie, I have tons of trust issues, and she set all of them off with that. I end up pretty much saying how everything I ever said to her was true, and that everything I did was for her (again, true). Now her friend tells me that she lied about that to help me get over her, but after my outburst feels we could work.

now, I get to decide if I even want her back. I'm leaning towards "yes, but only if she is willing to put in the same effort I am", but with a strong possibility of "after that stunt, hell naw".

also I feel nine thousand times better. woot. Thanks for the help guys (and gals), I guess now its my turn to take snakes place as relationship punching bag. commence with the Drgon bashing.

Aldurin · 09-16-2010, 12:43 AM

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Originally Posted by DarkDrgon

Ok, i know, dead thread, and no one wants to hear this anymore, but I finally feel good about things.

She texted my friend today asking how I was. He told the honest truth, that I was a wreck, and then it turned to him bashing her for what she did (probably not the smartest move, given he didn't know everything, but he seemed to get everything right cause she came to me)

so we talk, I honestly tell her I'd be willing to try again if she wanted to try, but she goes on saying we're not connected and we dont have enough in common. she then says we were never connected, and if I thought so it was all in my head.

So I flip out. Not gonna lie, I have tons of trust issues, and she set all of them off with that. I end up pretty much saying how everything I ever said to her was true, and that everything I did was for her (again, true). Now her friend tells me that she lied about that to help me get over her, but after my outburst feels we could work.

now, I get to decide if I even want her back. I'm leaning towards "yes, but only if she is willing to put in the same effort I am", but with a strong possibility of "after that stunt, hell naw".

also I feel nine thousand times better. woot. Thanks for the help guys (and gals), I guess now its my turn to take snakes place as relationship punching bag. commence with the Drgon bashing.

For your dilemma about whether or not to want her back. Just calm the fuck down, browse the archives here and wait to see what move she makes. If she really cares she won't just disconnect like that.

And if you feel you have to speak stuff at the expense of dead threads, do it. Talking it out may mean one less suicide in the world (I'm not saying you're that far, but it's nice to stop the car before it even sees the cliff).

Nique · 09-16-2010, 03:19 PM

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So I flip out.

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Now her friend tells me that she lied about that to help me get over her, but after my outburst feels we could work.

This doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. An emotional tiraid is going to make almost anyone have second thoughts, but that doesn't mean that the original decision wasn't a more accurate reflection of their desire... and she had one of her friends relate this to you? That's not mature. Also I think it's a red flag for her to give into something you want becuase of a moment of anger. It sounds like that could reinforce something highly negative in both of you.

I'd say the ideal choice is to not get back together, each of you move on and do other things. Even see other people if you so choose and simply remain friends if possible. If the opportunity presents itself in the future, after you have both done some growing, maybe you can revisit the relationship. But at this point it sounds highly juvenile on both of your parts and not really something worth pursuing.

09-13-2010, 03:49 PM	#53
Krylo The Straightest Shota Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: It's a secret to everybody. Posts: 17,789	I get lonely, and he makes me feel pretty. Don't make him stop, Jagos. __________________ I am very tired.

09-13-2010, 03:53 PM	#54
Shyria Dracnoir Kawaii-ju Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Monster Island Posts: 4,240	Just be glad he isn't like Nikose trying to bang barges, screw ships, and cuddle catamarans __________________ Godzilla vs. Gamera (1994)

09-16-2010, 12:24 AM	#58
DarkDrgon Always Trick Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 978	Ok, i know, dead thread, and no one wants to hear this anymore, but I finally feel good about things. She texted my friend today asking how I was. He told the honest truth, that I was a wreck, and then it turned to him bashing her for what she did (probably not the smartest move, given he didn't know everything, but he seemed to get everything right cause she came to me) so we talk, I honestly tell her I'd be willing to try again if she wanted to try, but she goes on saying we're not connected and we dont have enough in common. she then says we were never connected, and if I thought so it was all in my head. So I flip out. Not gonna lie, I have tons of trust issues, and she set all of them off with that. I end up pretty much saying how everything I ever said to her was true, and that everything I did was for her (again, true). Now her friend tells me that she lied about that to help me get over her, but after my outburst feels we could work. now, I get to decide if I even want her back. I'm leaning towards "yes, but only if she is willing to put in the same effort I am", but with a strong possibility of "after that stunt, hell naw". also I feel nine thousand times better. woot. Thanks for the help guys (and gals), I guess now its my turn to take snakes place as relationship punching bag. commence with the Drgon bashing. __________________ [color=red] Kneel before the Lord Drgon, or you will be knelt.

09-13-2010, 04:34 PM	#56
Funka Genocide Sent to the cornfield Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Las Vegas Posts: 4,566	This isn't about me or sailing. Its about the dude banging out Drgon's ex-girlfriend. Lets have some sympathy here folks.