|
![]() |
![]() |
#1 |
The revolution will be memed!
|
![]()
Ok so I've got a good friend who happens to be a god fearing creationist. Now, she isn't without hope, because I've sensed some doubt in her and she happens to be quite a cool dudette.
Now so I've begun the process of turning her to the correct way of seeing things. But I would appreciate any advice you could give me on how to do it in the most efficient way possible. Now this is a semi long term project, so there is no rush. This is important because of reasons. And also because there is a beer in it for me if I succeed. I've already sort of started by making her somewhat upset today about god and whatevs. So, if you need any more info just ask and otherwise gimme some good tips. I know you guys can do it. PS. she's hawt
__________________
D is for Dirty Commie! |
![]() |
![]() |
#2 | |
Shaken not Stirred
|
![]()
Start this around 2:10
You can start from the beginning, but depending on how interested she is (or isn't) that may not hold her attention long.
__________________
Quote:
|
|
![]() |
![]() |
#3 | |
Super stressed!
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: British Columbia
Posts: 8,081
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() Quote:
Not that I'm a hardwired catholic, not that I go to temple, church, ritual or seance, but as soon as you start believing your theological opinion is the correct one and judging or educating people based on it, you're as bad as those that you're against. In my books, at least. |
|
![]() |
![]() |
#4 | |
Kawaii-ju
|
![]() Quote:
__________________
Godzilla vs. Gamera (1994) |
|
![]() |
![]() |
#5 |
wat
Join Date: Jan 2005
Posts: 7,177
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]()
But you should tear it down because it's stupid. Try telling her she's stupid! That always works!
|
![]() |
![]() |
#6 |
adorable
Join Date: Sep 2007
Posts: 12,950
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]()
__________________
this post is about how to successfully H the Kimmy
|
![]() |
![]() |
#7 | |
Making it happen.
|
![]()
Arguments presented as simple statements of obvious fact are persuasive. It works for theists, right!
In seriousness, no argument should be made under the assumption that (a) the other party knows the things you do, or (b) they necessarily are privy to and/or remember every similar argument you've made in the past. Which brings me to my point. If Oster's creationist friend is showing signs of doubt already, the scientific-and-factual route is probably the way to go. I doubt there's much merit to be gained in arguing from a theological standpoint unless you're secretly a major in that sort of thing, in which case you likely wouldn't need our help to begin with. Point out the erroneous assumptions, about the world, made by creationists years ago, and why they are false. Point out the erroneous assumptions, about the world, made by creationists even today, and why they are false. Imply a pattern about the ever shrinking bubble of ignorance, as I've heard it called. Your goal here is to make her understand that we humans not yet understanding how something works does not mean that a God must be responsible for it. Rather it means we simply do not yet understand how that something works. Just a start. Will require some research but I can only imagine you are prepared for that.
__________________
Quote:
3DS Friend Code: 4441-8226-8387 Last edited by Loyal; 03-28-2012 at 10:17 PM. |
|
![]() |
![]() |
#8 | ||
Kawaii-ju
|
![]()
Explain why you don't feel this way, Liz.
I'm not saying he shouldn't tell her she's wrong, he just needs to know how to approach the subject without being condescending. Acknowledging modern evolutionary theory as scientific fact does not automatically have to conflict with a belief in a higher power. Just cite the reasons why we can trust the scientific theory behind evolution (observeability, testability,) based on our understanding AND examples of how this does not need to contradict her beliefs as a Christian. I'm not sure which denomination Oester's friend belongs to, but there are some specific examples I pulled through Wikipedia. Quote:
Quote:
__________________
Godzilla vs. Gamera (1994) |
||
![]() |
![]() |
#9 | |
:3
|
![]() ![]() ![]()
__________________
Quote:
|
|
![]() |
![]() |
#10 |
Not a Taco
Join Date: May 2005
Posts: 3,313
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]()
First, Seil is right.
Second, tell her that it may not be that the universe was literally created 6000 years ago, but that the entire thing is possibly metaphorical. I mean, think back to when the books of the Bible were being written, they didn't need a scientific explanation of what was going on. They just needed to know that the universe was made, things happened, et cetera. For the same reason there are no dinosaurs in the Bible, there's no evolution: It's irrelevant in terms of the greater picture. One day to God might be a million years to us. It's not to say that God doesn't exist, because he used evolution to populate the world, and make sure that's clear. The above is, incidentally, my own belief on why the Bible says seven days, instantly created. It didn't need to be scientifically accurate, it just needed a quick background, to have understanding of what came next, and to answer where the world came from. Heck, it even got the order right, for evolution.
__________________
I did a lot of posting on here as a teenager, and I was pretty awful. Even after I learned, grew up, and came to be on the right side of a lot of important issues, I was still angry, abrasive, and generally increased the amount of hate in the world, in pretty unacceptable ways. On the off chance that someone is taking a trip down memory lane looking through those old threads, I wanted to devote my signature to say directly to you, I'm sorry. Thank you for letting me be better, NPF. |
![]() |
![]() |
|
|