"Bullshit Mountain? When Was That Approved?" or "Picking Up Drunk Girls"

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There are women who are just as nervous about meeting men as you are about meeting women. Some women will appreciate that they're not alone in feeling awkward or nervous in social situations.

Basically what I'm saying is just be yourself. If the drinking/dancing night life isn't something you enjoy, don't go there to meet potential romantic interests. Find people with similar interests. Everyone gets nervous in dating situations to some degree: Some people more than others. But you're much less likely to be nervous when you're doing something you enjoy with someone who shares those interests then if you're going someplace that already makes you feel out-of-place or uncomfortable.