Asking a favor of everyone

[shiney]

Hey all,

This time of year is very difficult on my wife. I'll be very honest with you all, I got involved with someone else last year around this time and today marks the 1 year anniversary where I confessed, ended it and began trying to rebuild my life with Rai. This is the reason I didn't hold the party I specified in my other thread...it's an embarrassing thing to discuss, but is a personal demon that I guess I can't ever get past unless I am honest about it. Yeah I'm a reformed cheater...don't do it people, it only hurts the ones you love. It rewards their love with disregard and dismissal. It's cruelty in its purest form. Never, ever do it, no matter how justified or unhappy you may think you are. Be honest to your goddamn partner. Break up if you have to but don't fuck around.

The favor part...I told her I would do everything I could to try and help her through today since I am stuck at work and I can't be with her. I really wish I could, but I don't have the time off available with some stuff coming up at the end of the month. And she said "You know there's barely anything you can do." She's more or less right, so I'm calling on you guys - if anyone would be so kind, would you be willing to email her at fayn.halenaryn@gmail.com and just say something to the effect of "Your [adjective] husband wants you to know he loves you"? I just want her to have a little bit of happiness through the day and to try and find a way to be there for her in spirit if I can't in person.

Thanks everyone.

For reference, just for today to prove exactly what kind of day it's going to be, our new kitten just took a huge steaming crap on our bedspread and it leaked through to the mattress.