How many of you have been hit on by someone of the non-preferred gender? - Page 3

09-14-2004, 03:11 PM

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Originally Posted by RaiRai

And you also seem closed-minded.

It's a sad truth that things are so messed up in society that harmless flirting can be classed as unwanted sexual attention.

Aren't you with Shiney?

That's what we call "Seeing other people".

***RaiRai*** · 09-14-2004, 03:17 PM

How is flirting 'seeing other people'?

shiney · 09-14-2004, 03:19 PM

She flirts with everyone, and she allows me to flirt with everyone. I was hitting on Tommathy the other night, then i turned right around and hit on LeefRyder. She hits on her gaian friends all the time.

Not like we're even considering leaving each other or cheating on each other. Flirting is just fun. Only insecure people would see it otherwise.

Terex4 · 09-14-2004, 04:10 PM

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Originally posted by RaiRai
It's a sad truth that things are so messed up in society that harmless flirting can be classed as unwanted sexual attention.

No the sad truth is that in some places *cough* California *cough* this thread or a discussion like it in a public place can be classed as unwanted sexual attention. Even if you're not involved. Someone can simply overhear your conversation and somehow you're breaking the law because of it.

I despise people with that attitude.......

Dona Maria · 09-14-2004, 04:21 PM

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No the sad truth is that in some places *cough* California *cough* this thread or a discussion like it in a public place can be classed as unwanted sexual attention. Even if you're not involved. Someone can simply overhear your conversation and somehow you're breaking the law because of it.

Where in California have you been? Unless you're saying things of this nature around crunchy-granola extreme militant feminists on campus of SFSU, you'll be fine.

Terex4 · 09-14-2004, 04:25 PM

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Where in California have you been? Unless you're saying things of this nature around crunchy-granola extreme militant feminists on campus of SFSU, you'll be fine.

I like to make fun of California because I've encountered the most rediculous people on soapboxes there. But to answer your question: Davis. Everyone gets offended by everything there, and that, sad to say, is not exaggeration.

Lockeownzj00 · 09-14-2004, 04:57 PM

I can understand simply not being gay, but what do you expect? If the other guy (assuming this is guy-to-guy) accepts it then...there's no problem...you would just be another guy they were interested in.

I like it. I might flirt back.

adamark · 09-14-2004, 05:50 PM

What the??? Why was my second comment deleted? Was it too offensive? It was meant to be a joke/play on words. Sorry if it offended?

videogamerz2000 · 09-14-2004, 06:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Johnny Socko

i'm not gay, but i really enjoy hearing about this stuff, especialy when the straight guys start freaking out.

"...when i choke slammed him" yeah, you sure showed that guy. next time he'll think twice before he's gay. fucking neandertal.

Ummm......no. Just no. I may be rough on people, but I'm not an ass. Hell, at my old job, my friend and I hit on each other. Every day. Right in front of our girlfriends. Good times.

09-14-2004, 07:15 PM

I'm not really sure choke-slamming a guy just because he slapped you on the ass is really... I dunno. Appropriate? Maybe smacking him across the face, or saying "Hey, not funny."

Although, whenever I go to a club I am prepared to inflict massive pain on the first person who thinks fondling any part of me is an appropriate way of saying 'hi'.

As for me though - I get hit on by girls all the damned time. It's annoying. I flirt with everyone, but that is different. My female friends and I will flirt like we are cheap two-dollar whores, but the moment one of them even jokingly references anything serious, it's just... eww.

A tip though - for those of you receiving compliments from someone of the non-preferred sex. Say 'Thank you'. Assuming the person is not soley after your genitals and a quick fling, they are complimenting you by telling you how attractive you are. Even if you do not reciprocate those feelings, you should be appreciative that they are willing to share that with you.

After all, isn't it nice to be liked?

Now true... a locker room might be an uncomfortable situation, since you are so exposed. But you can still be appreciative. Especially if you make it known that you are not sexually interested. And if they push the issue well, then they really aren't good people.

I cannot tell you how often I get offers for threesomes from random people in Columbus. I say "no thank you, I'm not into that" and they persist, and persist, telling me how much I'd like it if I tried it. They are like drug-pushers.

People like that; don't need 'em. The ones who are simply interested in me, be they straight or gay, I'll deal with them.

09-14-2004, 03:17 PM	#22
*RaiRai* Check mate. Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Down your pants. Posts: 2,210	How is flirting 'seeing other people'? __________________ I AM FURIOUS

09-14-2004, 03:19 PM	#23
shiney Derrrrrrrrrrrrrp. Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: The land of fartz and buttz Posts: 8,266	She flirts with everyone, and she allows me to flirt with everyone. I was hitting on Tommathy the other night, then i turned right around and hit on LeefRyder. She hits on her gaian friends all the time. Not like we're even considering leaving each other or cheating on each other. Flirting is just fun. Only insecure people would see it otherwise. __________________ boop

09-14-2004, 07:15 PM	#30
Kieru Guest Posts: n/a	I'm not really sure choke-slamming a guy just because he slapped you on the ass is really... I dunno. Appropriate? Maybe smacking him across the face, or saying "Hey, not funny." Although, whenever I go to a club I am prepared to inflict massive pain on the first person who thinks fondling any part of me is an appropriate way of saying 'hi'. As for me though - I get hit on by girls all the damned time. It's annoying. I flirt with everyone, but that is different. My female friends and I will flirt like we are cheap two-dollar whores, but the moment one of them even jokingly references anything serious, it's just... eww. A tip though - for those of you receiving compliments from someone of the non-preferred sex. Say 'Thank you'. Assuming the person is not soley after your genitals and a quick fling, they are complimenting you by telling you how attractive you are. Even if you do not reciprocate those feelings, you should be appreciative that they are willing to share that with you. After all, isn't it nice to be liked? Now true... a locker room might be an uncomfortable situation, since you are so exposed. But you can still be appreciative. Especially if you make it known that you are not sexually interested. And if they push the issue well, then they really aren't good people. I cannot tell you how often I get offers for threesomes from random people in Columbus. I say "no thank you, I'm not into that" and they persist, and persist, telling me how much I'd like it if I tried it. They are like drug-pushers. People like that; don't need 'em. The ones who are simply interested in me, be they straight or gay, I'll deal with them.