Jade Empire: Romances (Spoilers?)

[tacticslion]

Okay, having recently acquired this, I'm curious:

Males:
- can romance Dawn Star
- can romance Silk Fox
- can romance both
- can romance Sky

Females:
- can romance Silk Fox
- can romance Sky
- ... caaaannnn romance both? (I don't know about this one.)

Is this correct?

I'm currently playing through as a male and my wife as a female, and we wanted to compare our play-throughs, but as romance options are a fun part of gameplay experiences for both of us, I was curious.

I've seen plenty of comments about...

- Males: Dawn OR Silk OR both OR Sky
- Females: Silk OR Sky

... so I'm guessing those are correct, but I've been unable to find any hint of the possibility of following both.

From the one guide I've read ("no spoilers" thing), there seems to be no "contradiction" between following both the Silk and Sky romance as a female, but I can't find anything on how that would function, unlike the PC/Dawn/Silk combination.

EDIT: Also, is there any way to get more ability score points early on? An aside, I know.

[Malek]

As far as I'm aware, if you start the sky romance path as a female character it will take priority over the silk fox path.

[tacticslion]

As far as I'm aware, if you start the sky romance path as a female character it will take priority over the silk fox path.

Huh... just a straight-forward override? Interesting. And unexpected. Thanks!